Mon. Dec 10th, 2018

Mind Damage Advisory Council Member Highlight: Kelly Lang


For Kelly Lang of Leesburg, Virginia, a automobile accident on November 27, 2001 modified her and her household’s life.

Kelly was a few mile from house, taking her daughter to rehearsal for the “Nutcracker” when she was rear-ended at a stoplight. The automobile hit two different autos earlier than hitting hers, pushing her automobile about 60 toes the place it ended up suspended on a guardrail.

Within the backseat had been her daughters, Hannah, 5, and Olivia, Three. As soon as the automobile stopped, Kelly was unconscious, however woke as much as the sounds of Hannah screaming, “Mommy, get up!” She remembers the EMTs speaking to her, however doesn’t keep in mind any particulars aside from them repeatedly asking if anybody was within the third-row seating. Later she understood why they stored repeating the query — as a result of probably nobody would have survived there. She remembers lastly waking up within the emergency room, the place apparently she was speaking, however doesn’t recall any of it.

All three had been taken to the native ER about 4 miles away. Olivia was code blue on the scene, barely respiratory and struggling for her life. The native hospital wasn’t geared up for pediatric trauma so she needed to be transferred to the closest pediatric unit in Fairfax.

In her daze, Kelly thought to ask the ER to name a good friend to accompany Olivia to the Fairfax hospital. Hannah was bodily okay, although she would later undergo from PTSD. Kelly known as considered one of Hannah’s college pals to come back decide her up, and to spend the night time with them at their home.

Kelly was checked over and launched a number of hours later—with none sneakers, and her pants had been reduce off, so she was given scrubs to put on house. Her good friend’s sister-in-law got here to take her to the Fairfax hospital to be with Olivia. Upon visiting the restroom, Kelly was shocked to look into the mirror and uncover that she had two black eyes and a bloody nostril with dried blood throughout her face. She couldn’t imagine that they had let her depart the ER trying like that! She would have a variety of ache over the subsequent few days.

When Kelly lastly arrived at Olivia’s aspect, she discovered her Three-year-old daughter intubated, and was instructed that she has suffered a mind harm, however they weren’t positive how extreme it was. They must do surgical procedure if the swelling didn’t go down, and an inter-cranial strain monitor was put in so they might monitor the swelling. Ultimately it was eliminated, and Olivia didn’t want surgical procedure. She had fractured the again of her cranium, and so they had been monitoring her Three–four bleeds. She was in a coma for about 10 days, and round day 14, she was transferred to a pediatric rehab hospital in Baltimore.

After Olivia got here house from in-patient rehab, the household began to note one thing was improper with Kelly. She was very fatigued, and her husband would have hassle waking her. She went to her common practitioner, who fortuitously despatched her to a neuro psychologist immediately who recognized her with Put up Concussion Syndrome (PCS). She had by no means heard of PCS—however feels that she reached the precise physician on the proper time to place all of it collectively.

In 2002 Kelly attended a help group for folks of children with TBI, and found Mind Damage Providers (BIS), the place Olivia was instantly accepted. They inspired Kelly to additionally apply, and he or she joined the audio system bureau in 2006—which ended up being extraordinarily therapeutic for her, and he or she has been a member ever since.

By means of BIS, Kelly would finally meet Anne Forrest, who linked her to the Mind Damage Affiliate of America (BIAA). In 2006 Olivia was on a poster for the BIAA to advertise Mind Damage Consciousness Month. In 2011 Kelly joined the Mind Damage Advisory Council (BIAC).

Olivia graduated highschool in 2017 and is attending neighborhood faculty, taking two courses per semester. She was a panel member at Mind Damage Consciousness Day in 2017. Collectively Kelly and Olivia are actively concerned in spreading consciousness. Kelly acknowledged, “This complete expertise has taught me the right way to advocate and share our story, hoping to assist others.”

How has the BIAC modified your life?

It has given me the assets and advocacy alternatives, in addition to studying alternatives. It has put me in contact with a variety of professionals within the mind harm neighborhood, in addition to different advocates.

Initially printed in Summer time 2018 The Problem! Journal and republished right here with permission from the writer.

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